Meridian stretches work on the connective tissue within the belly of the muscle being stretched.
The meridians offer a guide to stretching the connective tissue network reasonably completely. They also offer an excuse or reason to focus some awareness on the organs related to the meridians being stretched.
(The connective tissue network of the body is what "contains" the meridians.)
So that this connective tissue can be stretched it is important to focus on relaxing the muscle being stretched. So that the target muscle can relax you may find it helpful to give that target muscle a stable foundation. You may also find it helpful to move into any stretch slowly, smoothly and with control.
By moving into each stretch slowly and smoothly you can focus on feeling your body as you move into it. At the same time, because it can take concentration to move slowly, you'll also be working on developing your control. As you hold each stretch you can focus your awareness on the sensations that the stretch creates. You can learn to identify the muscles that you are stretching. You can then work at relaxing that muscle so that you can deepen the stretch.
To relax a muscle you may find that you can feel the end points of that muscle pulling on the bones that it attaches to. You may then find it helpful to pull those ends towards each other so that you activate the muscles. (Do this slowly and smoothly, particularly if you are close to the limits of your body.)
Then you can gradually relax the muscle and deepen your stretch.
Another way to relax muscles being stretched is to focus on using opposing muscles to deepen the stretch. In a pose like side splits or half side splits you can focus on lifting your knee and foot off of the floor (make it "feel" like you are lifting the knee or foot) so that your legs move wider apart.
To stretch leg muscles that attach to the feet you can give those muscles a stable foundation by activating your feet, and ankles, i.e. making them strong. You can shape your foot according to whether you are standing on it, in which case you can use it to press into the floor, or whether it is free, in which case the feeling might be like pulling on a shoe, boot, sock or stocking.
To stretch leg muscles that attach to the pelvis or spine you can focus on making the spine stable by using your abdominals, spinal erectors or both at the same time. You may also find it helpful to use your side gluteals.
So that you can keep your target muscle relaxed, try moving into any stretch smoothly and slowly so that you can feel said muscle. If you have control you can pause at any time you feel your target muscle tensing. You can then focus on allowing it to relax at which point you can then continue to move deeper into the stretch.
An option for stretching a muscle is to slowly release it as you move into a stretch. Then, ideally by the time you reach the end of the stretch, your muscle is completely relaxed. The advantage of this method is that you develop your control over your ability to relax a muscle smoothly and completely. You may find it easier then to slowly and smoothly contract the same muscle. If you develop the ability to slowly contract and release it is then easier to carry that same controllability into quickly releasing and contracting.
To stretch a particular meridian you can simply focus on stretching along the line that the meridian runs. So that we can do that it can be helpful to learn the pathways of the 12 ordinary meridians.
Once you know the pathway of each meridian you can figure out how to stretch the meridians or energize them or you can analyze a posture or action to see which meridians are being stretched or energized.
If a meridian crosses the front of the hip (like the stomach meridian does) then you can stretch the meridian at that location by opening the front of the hip. You can reach one leg back in a lunge so that the front of the hip of that leg is stretched.
Where a meridian runs along the length of a muscle then you can lengthen that muscle. As an example the stomach meridian runs down the front of the leg along the rectus femoris muscle. This muscle attaches between the front of the pelvis and the front of the knee. You can stretch this muscle and the stomach meridian by tilting your pelvis back while the knee is bent. (Reclining Hero Pose)
For a complete stretch of the stomach meridian you can stretch the front of the ankle as well as the front of the belly and ribcage.
The better you know or understand the meridian network the easier it is to build a routine of meridian stretches that stretches the bodies connective tissue completely.
For a more detailed explanation of the meridian network read Meridians.
If you hold your arms up over your head, then the Yin organ meridians all run upwards up the inner thighs and up the fronts of the arms.
Yin Organs are as follows: Liver, Lung, Spleen, Kidneys, Pericardium
The Yin Organ meridians connect to the Yang Organ meridians at the fingers.
The Liver Meridian (green) runs up the center of the inner thigh between the kidney and spleen meridians.
It connects to the lung meridian at the front of the shoulder.
The Lung Meridian (white) runs down the outside edge of the front of the arm to the thumb.
The Spleen Meridian (yellow) runs along the front edge of the inner thigh.
It starts at from the top of the big toe. Running up the torso it follows a line to the outside of the stomach meridian. It connects to the heart meridian at the shoulder.
The Heart Meridian (red) runs along the inside edge of the front of the arm ending at the pinky.
The Kidney Meridian runs up the back line of the inner thigh.
It starts at the bottom of the foot from the the little toe back and to the inside edge of the foot where it follows the inside of the arch to then do a circle around the inside of the ankle.
It then ascends the back edge of the inner thigh to the perineum and then runs up the front of the body close to the center line, connecting to the collar bone just inside the point where it connects to the sternum.
The Pericardium Meridian runs down the center line of the front of the arm to the tip of the middle finger.
If you hold your arms up over your head then the Yang organ meridians all flow (mostly) downwards along the back of the arms, the neck and along the front, sides and back of the body and legs. They connect to the Yin meridians at the feet.
The Large Intestine Meridian (white) starts at the index finger and runs up the outside edge of the back of the arm.
From there it runs up the neck and across the space between the bottom of the nose and the top of the upper lip, crossing the body's center line to connect to the stomach meridian (yellow).
The Stomach Meridian runs down the front of the body. Running down the torso it crosses the nipple and runs down the outside edge of the rectus abdominus and down the front of the thighs and lower leg to the foot where it connects to the big toe and the second toe.
The Small Intestine Meridian (red) runs up the back of the arm along the inside edge. It starts from the back side of the pinky. It zigzags across the spine of the shoulder blade, runs up the side of the neck to the outer corner of the eye and then to a point just in front of the ear.
The Bladder Meridian (blue) runs down the back of the body and back of the leg.
It starts at the inside corner of the eye, runs over the top of the head and down the back of the body. To either side of the spine it has two lines on each side. These two lines zag outwards and down at the buttock and then recombine to form one line just behind each knee.
The Bladder Meridian then runs down the back of the calf to the outside of the heel and down the outside of the foot. It ends at the tip of the small toe where it then connects to the Kidney Meridian.
The Triple Heater Meridian runs up the center of the back of the arm from the ring finger. It ascends the neck and circles behind the ear.
The Gall Bladder Meridian runs down the side of the body and side of the leg. It starts from in front of the ear, and coils back and forwards along the side of the head, each zag taking it higher up the skull. It then descends down the front of the shoulder and down the side of the body.
As a yoga teacher, I'm constantly exploring new exercises, new ways of doing yoga poses.
There is no single "right way" of doing a yoga pose. Instead, there are options. And the better you are at "feeling" your body, the better you can get at choosing the right option for your body as it is now.
For any technique, the point of practice is to learn feel it and to control it, so that it can be used without thinking about how to use it.
And that is more or less the approach taken in all of my ebooks and videos. They help you to feel your body and control it so that you can work towards using it effectively in anything that you do.